「音樂」The Fray - How To Save A Life

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在精神上支持別人,不需要精確的邏輯、也不需要解決問題的魔法,

你可以作的是傾聽、相信、不論斷。




Step one you say we need to talk
(一開始,你說:『我們需要談談』)

He walks you say sit down it's just a talk
(他緊張地想逃,你說:『坐下吧,我們只是談談而已』)


He smiles politely back at you
(他坐下了,對你強擠出微笑)

You stare politely right on through
(你,很有禮貌地打量著他)

Some sort of window to your right
(你的右邊有扇窗子)

As he goes left and you stay right
(他走到你旁邊,所以你覺得有點不自在)

Between the lines of fear and blame
(他開始抱怨,你想要幫他,但是你的安慰,聽起來卻像責備) 

And you begin to wonder why you came
(他還是很沮喪,所以你覺得對牛彈琴,開始厭煩,想逃離他)

Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
(結果第二天,他自殺了;於是你很自責)

Somewhere along in the bitterness
(你在想,也許你曾經能幫助他?)

And I would have stayed up with you all night
(『那天晚上,我應該陪他一整晚才對……』你說)

Had I known how to save a life
(『如果我早知道他會自殺的話,我應該整晚陪著他的……』)

Let him know that you know best
(『我會讓他知道,我懂他的苦…』)

This lyrics is translated by Three Minute Passion
(本歌詞由三分鐘熱度部落格翻譯)

Cause after all you do know best
(因為,他自殺了,所以你終於知道了,原來他真的很痛苦)

Try to slip past his defense without granting innocence
(如果還有機會,你,可以試著理解你悲傷的朋友,放鬆他的戒心。別只是對他重複那句客套話:『你很好,看開一點嘛』)

Lay down a list of what is wrong
(你,可以陪著他面對恐懼,和他一起寫下他犯的錯)

The things you've told him all along
(他犯的錯,你再清楚不過了,因為你已經責備過他幾百次)

And pray to God he hears you
(陪著他,一同向上帝禱告,請求上帝瞭解、寬恕他、希望他有一天會自由)

And pray to God he hears you
(如果你真心祈禱,上帝會聽得見你們的禱告)

All lyrics translations from  Three Minutes Passion are original
(三分鐘熱度部落格內,所有翻譯歌詞皆為原創譯作)

Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
(你問自己:『那晚我到底作錯了什麼?他為什麼要自殺?』)

Somewhere along in the bitterness
(『我知道他一直在受苦……』)

And I would have stayed up with you all night
(『如果還能重來一次,我會陪他渡過那個絕望的夜晚……』)

Had I known how to save a life
(『
如果,我能早一點知道,我應該怎麼幫助絕望的靈魂…』)

As he begins to raise his voice
(當他開始激動起來)

You lower yours and grant him one last choice
(你靜靜地聽他說話,這時你的耐心也到極限了,你想擺脫他)

Drive until you lose the road
(於是你載著他,你會一直開著車,直到路的盡頭?)

Or break with the ones you've followed
(或是在這裡丟下他?)

He will do one of two things
(他會選擇作什麼呢?活下去,或選擇結束一切?)

He will admit to everything
(他會覺悟?)

Or he'll say he's just not the same
(或者,他會重生?)

And you'll begin to wonder why you came
(你,還是很懷疑自己為什麼要浪費自己的時間在他身上)

Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
(『他為什麼要自殺呢?我曾有機會幫助他嗎?』)

Somewhere along in the bitterness
(『難道,他真的必須這樣結束自己的生命嗎?』)

And I would have stayed up with you all night
(『如果那個晚上,我在他身邊,他還會自殺嗎?』)

Had I known how to save a life
(如果,當時我知道如何拉他一把就好了)

Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
(『他為什麼要自殺呢?』)

Somewhere along in the bitterness
(『現在,我終於知道他有多痛苦了……』)

And I would have stayed up with you all night
(『如果時間可以再重來的話,我會整個晚上陪著他』)

Had I known how to save a life
(如果當時我知道,因為我是他的朋友,所以我能幫助他)

 


  •   戀戀 於 2012-02-18 23:08 5F

  • 精神上的支持與陪伴
    是很重要的

    傾聽、相信、不論斷
    說得很好

    但往往我們容易失去耐心 ......
    忘了適時伸出援手
    總以為
    沒那麼糟吧 ......
    於是
    遺憾 ..... 發生了   

  •   Gloria 於 2012-02-15 01:00 4F
  • 嗯~選的好~




  •   還是 寒 於 2012-02-04 22:45 3F
  • 喜歡你 開頭 的那一段話  傾聽 是 最好 的陪伴 ...




  •   華臻 於 2012-02-03 21:47 2F
  • 原來
    心鎖一定要人去開導
    原來
    傾聽交談是對等重要
    原來
    taco所選的歌涵意如此深
    原來..ㄡ原來
    又是好歌一首
     

    朋友~天冷注意保暖呦!一杯咖啡遞上願能溫暖寒夜中還在聽曲的你
    ((((有感動到痛哭流涕了吧)))) 哈哈
  • 版主於 2012-02-04 02:58 回覆
    是阿~是很冷邊聽邊抖  哈~

    謝謝華臻捏~衣服都哭溼了......更冷囉  哈哈~



  •   蘇珊 於 2012-02-03 10:24 1F
  • 精神支持與寧靜的陪伴  有時候更勝過不當的言語勸說